The "Is This About Me?" Panic (authors confession)
The "Is This About Me?" Panic (and Other Writing Hazards) When people first learned I was writing books, they did two things: 1. They told me how wonderful it is and promised to buy my book (some did... some didn't) 2. They also ask a similar question—usually by a friend who looks slightly concerned or a family member who has a guilty conscience: "Is this character based on me?" I’ll be honest with you—the answer is always NO . First of all, writing a book based entirely on real people is a fantastic way to end up with a very short Christmas card list and a very long conversation with a lawyer. But more importantly, reality is often a bit too messy for a tight plot. Real people don’t always follow a three-act structure. They don't always have an "inciting incident" before they go to the grocery store. However, there is a secret I usually keep to myself while I'm nursing my third cold cup of coffee of the day: while my characters aren't yo...