What you think does matter

Wow, time flies when your getting old... This is when my baby girl was about nine years old and she is making waffles, pancakes? Oh, that crazy little monkey boy next to her is my adorable son. Whom I still call coco head (coco as in coconut - because all children are born with heads that are large than their bodies.)

No offense, but this man does not want to see your Boobs, tata's or Breast! I apologize in advance but I am just going to say it: I do not need to see your breast, boobs, tata’s or knockers. Ok, please come to your senses. I will admit that in my your it was a pass time and I probably would have gotten all giddy and silly if a woman popped out her breast in front of me and started breast feeding her child. Ofcourse, I am pretty sure that in that day and probably today as well – if said woman with her openly exposed boob notices several men staring at her “ample supple” life sustaining membrane – breast, she would scream bloody murder. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve been there, seen that. I have been in public places where woman decided to or needed to feed their child and they did so. But they did so discreetly, covered and seeking to shelter the event from preying eyes. And even then I felt uncomfortable. It’s like a deer caught in headlights – you don’t want to look but oddly, fo...

Upset and dismayed... That is what I feel after talking with a so called know it all. As some of you know I wrote a book for my children about making money, managing money, managing time and becoming successful. For Children how to become RICH Successful & do well in school I am not a writer, never said I was and never studied to be a writer. But I did it anyway – for the love of my children, hoping to teach them and have it in a form they can carry with them (so when I am gone, morbid I know but just in case I ‘go’ before they fully mature); as I was saying: so they can carry with them in a physical book. I thought it was a great gift idea and I took most of all the things I have been trying to teach them (drill into their tiny heads) and I put it into the book – in an age appropriate manner. So I was talking with someone I will not name as to how to promote and sell my book; it’s not like I am a celebrity or have access to one to easily promote my book. So why did I ge...

Sand Castle’s, Dreams and Funny Days Having fun in the sun where dreams and sand castles abound. It was a beautiful start to a new year; the temperature was about 65 degrees, as the suns brightly shun high in the sky. The family enjoys the blue ocean water, even if I did not – not a fan of freezing cool water. I watched my children play in the ocean, play with the sand and I myself was entertained by the young man you was making elaborate sand castles just a few feet from where I sat. I couldn’t help but be oddly amazed by his work and the pleasantness of this young man as children, including my own child and nieces who wanted to ‘so call’ help. I couldn’t help it; I just had to go up and ask him if he was in some competition or preparing for a competition or was all this hard work for fun? I introduced myself and he told me his name was Rob. I overheard him say to another ‘inquiring mind’ that he was just visiting and was from Michigan. When I asked him why he was making the sa...

I just spent a fun fill two hours with my very smart niece. It was interesting to talk to this 6 yr old because one, I love her. Two, she is a pretty smart kid – she speaks English, Spanish and is learning Chinese. As the rest of my family slept the morning away (after effect of stay up all New Years Eve) me and my loving niece hade a small breakfast and she taught me some Chinese. I’ve known for some time that she was learning Chinese and I have always asked her to give me tips, like how to say hello and etc. But this morning as I tried to keep her entertained and engaged I asked her about her school, her friends, and how to say puppy, cat, boy, girl, little puppy and little cat. She surprised me with her intelligence and her fluency in the words in which she was teaching this old man Chinese. After spending more time with her as our time together moved from her teaching me Chinese to us impishly causing mischief with those who soundly slept (check out picture of us trying to wa...